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November 19, 2025
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Depending on how much there is of it, she could cover it up if it seems too commented on. Or if she isn't able to if I were on that position I'd say it's a secret science experiment..id say only as you can feel like one at times with this or ppl may just look confused and not pry more?

Or she can just say, it's a "birthday present"...as it's hereditary often..and say sorry it is just a very limited thing.

I know it can be difficult to deal with but once someone wanted to know at a store when they asked of a product I was getting otc to treat it. I found out their bf has the condition. I guess going over it was TMI and she went back in the store when we both were leaving at the same time ironically. I guess education about it is more than ppl can handle?

My daughter was teased when little as she had a tumor and was accused of being pregnant as it grew..it was removed but this condition can't be. Try to tell your daughter kids are curious more than they should be but remind her most grown ups aren't..so hang in there as she grows up.ignore ignorance

If it becomes too much she may want to talk to a therapist for how to cope or respond to others then.

November 19, 2025 (edited)
A MyPsoriasisTeam Member

Hi PeggyV.🙂

November 19, 2025
MyPsoriasisTeam

How can your daughter handle comments about psoriasis on her arms without taking it personally?

It's incredibly tough when people make comments, especially for young people dealing with psoriasis. Many MyPsoriasisTeam members share similar experiences of feeling hurt by questions and stares.

Here are some strategies that Show Full Answer

How can your daughter handle comments about psoriasis on her arms without taking it personally?

It's incredibly tough when people make comments, especially for young people dealing with psoriasis. Many MyPsoriasisTeam members share similar experiences of feeling hurt by questions and stares.

Here are some strategies that might help your daughter:

Educating Others
- She can calmly explain that it's psoriasis, a non-contagious skin condition
- Sharing that over 7 million Americans have psoriasis can normalize it
- Being objective about it as an immune system condition may help others understand

Setting Boundaries
- It's okay to let people know when comments hurt
- She doesn't owe everyone an explanation if she's uncomfortable
- Sometimes a simple "it's just a skin condition" is enough

Reframing Perspective
- Rude comments reflect more on the other person's character than on her
- Many people genuinely haven't heard of psoriasis and aren't trying to be hurtful
- A MyPsoriasisTeam member wisely noted that some people "say things without thinking about how others feel"

Building Confidence
Building self-esteem is crucial. Many young people with psoriasis cite "feeling more confident" as a top treatment goal. Mental health support, connecting with others who understand, and focusing on treatment can all help her feel more comfortable in her own skin.

Remember, the embarrassment and shame are common feelings, but they don't define her worth.

November 19, 2025

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